we tried going abroad for christmas for two years, but that did not work out, mainly cause one of the people comming along did not want to miss the family gathering at his grandmothers place, etc...
I don't think there ever was anybody dressed up as santa in our family, but when i was small we belonged to those familys getting there presents from the
Christkind and it's had for an adult to play that

Nowerdays we usually celebrate on christmas eve with my grandparents from next door coming over... first day we have dinner at their place, and all the other time is spend either playing around with the presents or visiting some other relatives (mainly my other grandparents and maybe some uncles/aunts)...
Hm, what else did you ask... eh... oh yeah, we usually get a big(ish) real tree... and I never ever sing

Last question i'm gonna answer... what did i wish for... that's a hard one... not much, really... mainly just "whatever you think I'll like"... maybe i'm gonna point some people towards some books i'd like, but except for that, i'm pretty much out of ideas
