Condoms Yes/No ?

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Condoms Yes/No ?

Postby uzunov on Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:03 pm

I always asking myself what people from other contries think about using condoms, what kind of condoms do u prefer, what is your favourite distributor...
Do prefer using condom...

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Re: Condoms Yes/No ?

Postby Myst on Tue Sep 19, 2006 9:16 pm

uzunov wrote:I always asking myself what people from other contries think about using condoms, what kind of condoms do u prefer, what is your favourite distributor...
Do prefer using condom...

Waiting for your answers....



If I don't want to have a baby with the person I'm doing it with, then yes I would wear a condom. Or when a girl says she really doesnt like the condom in her, when I'm about to ya know Razz , I would just pull out. Here in the USA we mostly use Trojans.
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Re: Condoms Yes/No ?

Postby thanjee on Wed Sep 20, 2006 5:50 am

If I don't want to have a baby with the person I'm doing it with, then yes I would wear a condom. Or when a girl says she really doesnt like the condom in her, when I'm about to ya know Razz , I would just pull out. Here in the USA we mostly use Trojans.


2 issues here: The pull out method is not really a contraceptive method. Statistics on this method state that it is only 81% effective. That means a 1 in 5 chance of getting someone pregnant - those are bad odds - you are safer playing russian roulette where you have a 1 in 6 chance. Plus you have no protection against sexually transmitted diseases.

Secondly - trojans? Wooden horses or computer code? I guess both are safe :p

Condoms are okay as a contraceptive, as long as you use them properly - like if you put them on the wrong way, throw them out and use a new one - don't turn them the right way around because chances are there may be a sperm or two already lurking, as well as other fluids - yes i know of people who have become pregnant from doing this.

condoms and another method is better. A vasectomy is the ultimate - but it is a long term committment - and inneffective against STDs.

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Postby uzunov on Wed Sep 20, 2006 3:47 pm

There also pills, which the girl should take few hours before the act...but condoms are safer...but when we`re talking about one-night sex on the first date, people should defenitely use condoms[you know whay-HIV].,..


...but if u have for a long time relation with some person and you trust him/her you can use pills - preventing pregnace

..and also I use - Durex ['ultra thin' in most cases]
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Postby zogo on Wed Sep 20, 2006 5:56 pm

it's not the matter of trust at all. Despite the negative feelings I have towards the human race as a whole, I don't think many people will infect their partner(s) on purpose. Some STDs dont manifest themselves right away, and some can reside undetected for a long time.. It's not about trust. It's about getting a medical checkup. Then, and only then, will I say good bye to condoms.

Pregnancy is a different issue. If I slip, and get a kid - it's life, and chilldren are cool... I'd make one sooner or later. If I slip, and get syphillis... I dont think it'd make me very happy.

A girl saying she doesnt want a condom in her... to me that sounds like "hey, I have clap, and I'd like you to have some too." Suspicious. No, thank you.
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Postby Boso on Wed Sep 20, 2006 7:48 pm

uzunov wrote:There also pills, which the girl should take few hours before the act..['ultra thin' in most cases]


These pills can get her a brest cancer. They are bad.

I use condoms only in the beginnig of a relation (I'm against the one night thing, don't like the idea at all). I know that the pull out method is bad. Uless both of us (my girl and me) enjoy somehing real. The condoms are killing the feeling.

P.S. The only condoms I use are Durex ultrathin ore something like that.
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Postby Samppa on Thu Sep 21, 2006 10:41 am

Boso wrote:These pills can get her a brest cancer. They are bad.


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The risk of breast cancer increases slightly if your family has a history of breast cancer. For example, if you have someone in your family who has been diagnosed with breast cancer under the age of 40, you are at a risk, or if 3 people in your family have developed breast cancer at any age, you are also at a risk. The pills do not cause breast cancer, but the woman becomes susceptible if there has been cases of breast cancer in her family or if she is a smoker.
Even then the chances are ridiculous.
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Postby Boso on Thu Sep 21, 2006 6:16 pm

Two studies from the mid-1990s found a slightly increased risk of developing breast cancer in current or recent users of birth control pills compared to women who had never used the pills. But the same research found that 10 years or more after women stopped using birth control pills, their breast cancer risk returned to the same level as if they had never used birth control pills.


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It's risky.
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Postby Samppa on Thu Sep 21, 2006 7:20 pm

For christ's sake, I just explained why it's (not) 'risky'.
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Postby rootland on Thu Sep 21, 2006 8:10 pm

Plus, there are ohter preventing measures like spirals which are professionaly inserted by a gynacologist. These are even less restrictive and have a very small range for errors.

And ffs don't start talking about pills being unsafe, you know beying in the sun to much can get you skincancer? I suggest you never leave your basement and see sunlight again, its a risk! The risk of pill usage has decreased tremendously since they first became available, only pills your girl shoudnt pop like candy's are morning after pills.
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Postby oscuro on Thu Sep 21, 2006 9:04 pm

Using condoms is a "must do thing" it's a weapon, for controlling diseases, and the growht of the population; I'm not saying having a baby is something you should avoid, that'd be strange, but you know, there's a lot of irresponsible people out there, who couldn't raise up a child. They have the baby, the man leave up, and the girl has to get the food, and do all the hard work.. and so many similar cases.

Governments around the world are investing in this kind of using condom campaigns.. there are places, where you got stopped by the police out in the street and they give you a condom, but sometimes I think it's just not enough.
The sexual education, is something needed for sure in the school.

Something to really worry about, is the some African countries situation.
Death is everywhre because of aids...but it's not fault of people over there at all.

For one side, they have people making campaing for the use of condom, and in the other side, their religions, who prohibit the use of it...summon to all that, the lack of education, the terrible poverty, the really expensive medic threatment or absolute lack of it.
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Postby pugrit on Fri Sep 22, 2006 4:31 pm

yeah, iv read about this pills and cancer thing issue, it said, modern pills prevents cancer on women and has good effects on skins/body something like that and cancer related cases to women taking pills are usally hereditary or runs in the blood line.

i think its another, shall i say urban legend about pills and cancer, just like pull out method can casue nervous break down, blindness, or worst case parkinson's.. Laughing

if doctors are prescribing it (pills), then probably the risk involved were carefully studied and weighed on its effects on women.
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Postby ambir on Thu Sep 28, 2006 4:36 pm

Comdoms should always be a yes. The pill doesn't prevent STDs, only unwanted pregnancies.
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Postby nderdog on Fri Sep 29, 2006 6:54 pm

An absolute must, until you're sure that 1) you're both clean and 2) you're ready to start a family.

Just keep in mind that condoms are NOT 100% effective. They do definitely improve your odds, though.
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Postby uzunov on Sun Oct 01, 2006 6:12 pm

nderdog wrote:An absolute must, until you're sure that 1) you're both clean and 2) you're ready to start a family.

Just keep in mind that condoms are NOT 100% effective. They do definitely improve your odds, though.

There is no 100% effective method Smile ...only the desteny knows what can be happened to u
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