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what do you guys/gals get for your special individual next Tudsay ?

would you like to share that with the rest of us since i'm a bit bored of my gifts for my babi this year (flower)

someone at work suggested chocolate but she hates it! she does care for teddy bear she doesnt like shopping....so i'm kinda out of luck

comments anyone ? thanks all

vitxim wrote:she doesnt like shopping....so i'm kinda out of luck

You are so full of shit

This topic actually come up amoungst my friends recently, noone was really planning anything much except for this one guy but he's keeping it to himself so chances are, from our point of view, it will be very funny.

well, not much 1 can do on Valentine Day.... hehe... y?? becos, i havent got a girlfriend just yet... but i may going to chat with some girls on the inetenet..

right now, i dont have a clue... i was thinking of going somewhere nice, but unfortunatly we wont be togheter on Valentines Day... I'll let you know what i did...

vitxim wrote:what do you guys/gals get for your special individual next Tudsay ?

would you like to share that with the rest of us since i'm a bit bored of my gifts for my babi this year (flower)

someone at work suggested chocolate but she hates it! she does care for teddy bear she doesnt like shopping....so i'm kinda out of luck

comments anyone ? thanks all

Try a candlelight dinner, a walk in the park, a pic nic, just think of something she will like for sure. Don't forget it's all about the gesture!

yeah i like the candle light dinner deal but she's not here with me unfortunately

maybe a handwritten poem with one fresh pink rose might do the trick! what do you guys think ? hehe i know she like poetry

ps: btw, she doesnt like shopping for real

Your girl is the only girl i've heard about that doesn't like shopping.
Good idea about the poem, i know lots of girls like poetry alot.

vitxim wrote:ps: btw, she doesnt like shopping for real

I don't believe you, lets test this, leave $50/$100 on the table, go sleep on the couch for a couple of hours and see what happens.

Tim wrote:I don't believe you, lets test this, leave $50/$100 on the table, go sleep on the couch for a couple of hours and see what happens.

Maybe the environment where you're from isn't the same like me. It takes a lot of work to build up a mature relationship. And even so, it also depends on the characteristic of each individual as well. I can answer that test of yours. She's not only leave it alone, she will remind me why am i leaving money out in the open like that.

I'm pretty much the same in return, that is why we (me and my fiance) get along very well.......and that is probably 1 of the reason why i am marrying her in a few months.

See I would get told off for leaving money lieing around and then be punished in an appropriate way (have the money taken away from me).

Well i actually hate vday cause my gf birthda is the same day as vday means i must spend more..coming soon our wedding day also near V-day. I DIE

Why dont you try to gif her nice romantic night in a good resturant and after the diner your love.

vitxim wrote:maybe a handwritten poem with one fresh pink rose might do the trick! what do you guys think ? hehe i know she like poetry

Coming from a competitive SLAM poet, I say this is the way to go. Do yourself a favor though, stay away from hallmark-isized poems, and if you can't write good poetry the borrow from one of the masters. If she likes Elizabethean-English style writing (i.e. Shakespearean) go for John Donne. Other options might be Robert Frost if she's into earthy imagery, or even something modern like Saul Williams.

And for those of you who are thinking WTF is SLAM, wiki it.

Does it make me a bad boyfriend if I forgot it was Valentines...which would also imply I didn't get anything. :S

hehe thanks everyone for the your nice inputs!

i got her 2 dozens this year plus a small cheesy poem i wrote back in college days, i bet she will love it *simple yet meaningfully*

have a great valentine's day tomorrows, everyone