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Tell ya what? . Depends on what does she like and what she misses. There is no such thing as an ultimate recpe for girl's happiness.

first thing to remember most of them are unstable and unpredictable. in a snap they change their minds. so does for happiness, they are happy now with what you are doing, the next thing you'll remember they wont b.

to play safe..be sensitive..

Some people say try to be sensitive...That generally makes you end up as one of their friends instead of a lover. Be masculine, though don't go overboard and wind up acting like an ass. Women generally want a sense of security (physically and often financially), and if they don't think you're capable of providing one or both you probably won't get them. I've seen women pass up a decent but submissive person for a jerk because they thought the latter would be better able to protect them.

Yes, I realize I'm generalizing, but from what I've seen the above is true for the majority of females (not all of them, of course). I tried playing the sensitive listener through high school and ended up with a lot of female friends, but I didn't get a girlfriend until I toughened up a bit.

If you're sensitive and you can find an intelligent woman who wants a sensitive man, congratulations.

I'm waiting for pimpdawny's opinion. =)

so am i. hehehehehe

but first thing to remember, they are girls and needs to be treated nicely. i sacrifice for my gf but human as i am, there are instances when too much is too much..then thats the time being masculine takes over..its case to case bases..when she see me real angry with all the demon looks, shes scared as a kitten...but even though its not my fault i always say sorry first...cause as i said, girls are girls and needs to be treated nicely..

its like..beneath all those make up and nonsense vain stuff, bitching around, bossing...somewhere deep inside they are saying "handle me with care"

just my opinion.

Heh, now you know I've been waiting for a thread like this. First thing I have to ask is how old is this guy who is asking about girls?

I mean, well, what do you want to know? I mean a girl is a very complex being.

If you're looking for sex, good luck and good riddens. That's what you have a hand for. So if you're looking for a quick way to get her in bed, you're not going to find the answer here. I will NEVER help a guy bag a girl just to do it.

If you want to get in good with a girl, respect her. Listen to her, talk to her, be cute with her - IF YOU HAVE TO DO IT IN PRIVATE SOBEIT AS LONG AS YOU DO IT. You can be Mr. Macho with your friends, and we'll even play along for the most part, but when the day is over, and you go home with your girl, you're going to have to be the cute you that she likes.

Presents are nice, and well accepted. They don't have to be expensive. They can be very inexpensive, even free... a flower picked from a garden, a picture... if you're an artist, making a gift is DEFINITELY from the heart.

What else do you want to know... the question was really vague, so I did what I could with the type of question given.

*the woman hath spoken*

I think your asking this at the wrong place.
I'm kind a sure that 75% of the people here never even went out with a girl for once.

Well now that's not necessarily true.

I don't think that's really the point... he definitely got a girl's opinion. And for the record, I think the best way to find out what a girl wants is to ask one. So...lucky for Method-Man... I was around.

Why do you speak only about the relations between a boy and a girl that could become intimate?

bart416: So we will have more folks from the community that will hear something new about the boy-girl relations .

words of advice from pimpdawny
I will be sure to take your advice into consideration next time

Honestly, I think that pretty much what I said before was targeted at both the intimate and the non-intimate. However - in a non-intimate scene, the presents might not be necessary. Hehe

bart416 wrote:I think your asking this at the wrong place.
I'm kind a sure that 75% of the people here never even went out with a girl for once.

Raise a poll about this. You're going to be suprised. ;)

That's assuming that everybody will answer truthfully.

zogo wrote:That's assuming that everybody will answer truthfully.

But loads of people will lie about it for sure.